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Head Cheese-It Saya likes lists. She’s Type A. She’s organized. She likes bullet points. She likes to cross things off. She has (strong, sometimes inane) opinions. She finds lists really helpful in brainstorming and reflecting. She likes easy to find, access, and share information. Especially of the win-win-win variety. Lists here are of the “This is so helpful!” variety and of the “What am I supposed to do with this knowledge?” variety. Take what serves you, leave what doesn’t.

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Because Mac & Cheese is headquartered in Chicago, many of the lists are Chicago-heavy. But many of the people, organizations, activities work virtually, so if something piques your interest, don’t let location deter you from exploring further! If a business listed has closed, shoot Saya a note (so hard to keep up with openings and closings!).

Lists Below
Service Provider Recommendations
Life of Yes℠ Resources
Material Item Recommendations
Spotlight: Home Office
How to Know Yourself
Life of Yes℠ Gift Guides
Coffeehouse Recommendations
More & Less Of
Things I wish I could get paid to do
Home criteria
Boyfriend criteria
Simple ways to comfort yourself
Your (used to be my) excuses
Your pet peeves
My pet peeves
Where I’ve traveled internationally

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Alphabetical by category.

Life of Yes℠ Resources

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Material Item Recommendations

Cleaning, home office, kitchen, tech, writing+…

Spotlight: Home Office

Every time I share my workspace, someone asks about something they see, so here’s everything I deem crucial to living my best work from home life. I’ve been wfh since 2004 but, in the most duh!!! statement ever, 2020 has brought with it a bunch of change even for us no-pants veterans. Change in how we communicate. How we prioritize. How we live day to day. And thusly I’ve transformed my physical space to match my pivots.

The theme to the (expensive, “Should I, shouldn’t I”) transformation is of course Life of Yes℠ —

  • How can I make the space where I spend the majority of my time as enjoyable, restorative, and energy-giving as possible?
  • What are my pain points? How can I lessen or remove them?
  • Are there ways to save money here so I can spend money there? Or is there something that’s just worth it and that I should buy without over-analyzing or having to balance out?
  • Where can I implement my “use the good china” policy? Are there things I’ve been saving for a special occasion? For guests? Today and every day is a special occasion. I should treat myself as I treat my guests.

Note that if you remove the desk, or if you find a less expensive alternative, this transformation can be done for a relative small amount of money. Don’t let my price tag stop you from the office set up of your dreams. As I always say, steal and tweak! Take my foundation and use it to customize best for your situation.

Links to and descriptions of specific items below the images.

Standing desk I’m not usually one to succumb to Black Friday deals but I was guilty twice this year — cookie dough 😂 and a standing desk (the deal is actually good till 12/31). My old desk had a very confined leg area not comfy for my 6′ frame and the standing desk converter I had left little surface area for me to use. I was also looking for an all in one that checked both the minimalist and adorable checkboxes. After a couple of hours of research, I went with Uplift. I liked the look and the range of customization. I need the stand option to be easy otherwise I’ll sit all day and this had that. The reviews and its inclusion on various “Best” lists gave me peace of mind that the chunk of money would be money well spent. I knew Uplift were my people with their copious cable management options and incentive to be able to choose 4! free accessories from a wide-ranging menu.
 
My customization for the $599 Uplift V2 —
  • Desktop Style: Walnut Laminate (I wanted solid wood but $670 extra as opposed to $0 extra quickly evaporated that dream; I love the clean look of the white* and questioned if I made the wrong choice but the “wood” fits better with our home and I like the dark. They have a whiteboard option if you’re into the idea of being able to write on your desk; that was a bit too much for me. *Peep her drawers! I love all of them so hard. I also need to upgrade my file cabinet and hers is prettyyyyy; one day. It’s also from Uplift) +$0
  • Desktop Size: 60×30 (the 3rd biggest in five size options) +$110.00
  • Frame Type: metallic Industrial Style +$0
  • Grommets: Black non-powered (these are the holes in the back of the desk that you run your cables through; considered getting at least one powered one but decided I had enough nearby power sources) +$0
  • Keypad: Basic Keypad (no memory settings) +$0
  • Freebie Accessory 1 of 4: Standing Desk Mat with Heel Grab (I stood for a day without and for a day with, huge difference! Won over cynic. The heel grab is so you don’t have to bend over to move the mat) +$0
  • Freebie Accessory 2 of 4: Bamboo Desk Organizer Set +$0
  • Freebie Accessory 3 of 4: Black Modesty Panel with Wire Management (a large mesh pouch that holds surge protectors and cords) +$0
  • Freebie Accessory 4 of 4: What?!? Did I not choose a 4th one?! My order only says three. Grrrrr. Well, I would’ve chosen a motion-x board or the tablet stand.
  • Magnetic Cable Channel (magnets to the desk frame and conceals cables routed up the desk leg) +$19.00
  • Keyboard Tray: Black Big Ultra-Thin Keyboard Tray with Quick-Adjust Mechanism (I knew I didn’t want to put the keyboard on my desk as that’d defeat the purpose getting more space; included track spacer allows me to push the tray entirely under the desk) +$150.40

With the $50 discount, $51.78 in sales tax, and $0 shipping, the grand total was $828.40. Or as I like to think of it to help me be ok with the amount, three cleaning gigs I yes’ed that I normally would’ve passed on. And because I sold my standing desk converter for $200, it was really $628.40 😄. Hoping to get that even lower after I sell my old desk

You know I used this opportunity for a delicious deep clean of an area that hadn’t been cleaned in a few years. Once I removed the old desk and before the new one arrived, I joyfully Dysoned and Swiffered. So sparkly fresh! I love the idea of starting a new chapter with a clean, blank slate.

The desk came in three shipments, a week after order was placed, over the course of a day. It was like Christmas over and over and over. The instructional video they sent had them assembling the desk in seven minutes. Uh, yeah. Not so much for me. It took me hours to assemble. It wasn’t hard, just a lot of steps and I wanted to make sure I got ’em right. Plus I had a lot of accessories to install that the video didn’t cover, not to mention my cleaning breaks. They offer an assembly service. If you have the cash, do it.

Cords are the bane of my existence. When I become a millionaire, I will absolutely pay someone for cord management — installing them, hiding them, simply thinking about them. I used the office refresh as an opportunity to get rid of, clean, and untangle. Have you ever run a dampened rag over a dirty cord? Nothing more satisfying.

I was worried about what I was going to do with all the stuff that was in the three drawers of my old desk, seeing that the standing desk has no drawers, even going so far as Shopping Cart’ing various solutions on Amazon, Target, Bed, Bath, & Beyond, and the Container Store. But after some reorganization, including relegating low touch materials to another room, I was able to fit everything I need in a drawer set I already had, which I placed immediately behind me so it doesn’t encroach on my leg space but I can still easily grab what I need.

Laptop I last had a desktop in 2012. I know that because that was the year I got engaged and in lieu of a ring-ring, this happened: How I ended up with 3 engagement rings and an engagement Mac Book Air. The main reason I liked having desktop was screen size. As I entrepreneured more and more and traveled more and more, I realized I liked the option of easily packing up my office and heading off to a coffeehouse or Belize. And that I could still get the screensize without having desktop. I’ve been Team Laptop + Monitor ever since. While I’m not Team Apple with most things — I’m Android, I don’t care about having an iWhatever or Apple made earbuds — I’m 100% Team Apple when it comes to a computer. PCs feel 1980s to me. Foreign to me. They’re soooo pricey. This is one area I spend the money without “Should I, shouldn’t I” back and forth. If I need to cut back elsewhere to make a purchase, done. Or I’ll just find a special someone who’ll get down on one knee with a Mac Book Air in hand instead of a ring.

Wireless printer/copier I was shocked to learn how many people don’t have printers or copiers at home. I love the convenience and not having to run to FedEx. It’s quiet, simple to use, fast, and the toner lasts a long time. Being able to print to it no matter the device or it being plugged in to said device is delicious. It brings me joy that it’s on the other side of the room and I didn’t have to take up desk space with it.
 
Scanner They no longer make the version we have; this is the updated edition.
 
Ring light with extendable tripod stand & phone holder In the “Never thought I’d buy” category but it makes all the difference! I look so much better virtually. It has three moods and different intensity for each mood. After seeing how much I liked mine, Best Friend got one too. Of all things I’d buy for the Zoom home office, this comes in at number one as far as how often it gets used and the difference it makes.
 
Webcam My laptop camera is fine quality wise, I don’ t need anything fancy in this area. The main reason I got this is because of my set-up — if I use my laptop camera, I have to look to the side instead of straight ahead. Because I can perch this on the monitor in front of me, I can look directly at the camera. Bonus: I look better too.
 
Monitor The one I have is so old I can’t find a link to it, but it’s similar to this one. Same brand, same size. I don’t care much about display quality. I just wanted the option to have two screens and a larger screen than my laptop. We usually buy monitors whenever they’re on deep discount which is how this one landed here. Two screens is a game changer, highly recommend.
 
Microphone I was using the mic on my laptop before I got this one and though it was clear, my voice was not as robust as it could be/as others due to distance. Not about to drop tons of money on a mic but on board with the fact that an external mic can really increase audio quality, even a lesser priced one, I bit the bullet with this middle of the road one. Not the cheapest, not the priciest. Very happy with it and the “Tech Guys” at various recent speaking gigs of mine have complimented me on my audio. My one knock is that it has a blue light that stays on and it’s really bright. Luckily I don’t sleep in my office otherwise we’d have an issue. Best Friend says he feels like he’s at a rave.
 
Laptop stand I’ve had this for a few years and love it. Dual purpose for me — raise my laptop so its eye level when I’m at my desk and to keep my laptop’s underside without blockage. You don’t want your laptop fan to overheat or have to grind it out. Unlike other ones, it comes a part which makes traveling with it easier.
 
3-Port USB hub with ethernet converter I have two of these connected to my laptop as without them, I wouldn’t be able to connect all my devices. And most importantly, it allows me to hard wire in so I don’t have to use WiFi when Zooming.
 
Ethernet cable Speaking of hard wiring, one of the first things we did when quarantine started was invest in this ridiculously long cable so that both of us could bypass WiFi. My office is miles from the router though. Running the cord down the hallway to my office from where the router is is our band-aid version; it doesn’t look nice. But who’s coming over these days? We’re going to wait and see how this all shakes out and if we want a more permanent solution. For now, this works perfectly. TIP: bring it with you when traveling if you’ll be doing virtual work. I taught storytelling while in Chattanooga and while I could’ve used the hotel WiFi, we all know how that can be spotty. As you don’t know what the setup will be, having a long cord gives you peace of mind that whatever it is, you can make it work.
 
iPad stand I bought this two years ago for the rare time a Lighthouse Squad member couldn’t be with us physically and needed to Zoom in. Now I use it often for my offerings where I want multiple angles, e.g. my Sparkle & Shine series where we clean together, separately. I love the versatility and mobility. And if I wanted to bring it on the road, it’s light and foldable.
 
Wireless keyboard and mouse Just like Oprah. Loves. Bread. Again, I. Hate. Cords. Looking at them. Dealing with them. Again, the first thing I’ll do when I’m rich is hire a Cord Wrangler to concoct stupid expensive ways to hide all the miscreants. For now, I find work arounds. Like lessening the amount of cords. I’ve been wireless moused for years but just became a wireless keyboarder and OMG. Whyyyyyy did I wait so long. It’s heaven.
 
Cord holder Pet peeve is cords falling from where you want them! This is stuck to the inside of my keyboard cubby hole and it holds my phone cord. I love that I can stuck the cord away when not in use and that it’s easily retrieved when needed.
 
Desk chair Disclaimer: I got this chair as part of my swag bag for being a speaker at a conference (I know, right?!?). It. Is. Pricey. I don’t know if I’d shell out the dough. That said, if you have said dough… Shell. (It’s fun to browse the Herman Miller site; if you want the Amazon link)
 
Turned my door into a whiteboard with sticky poster paper. Meetings. Self brainstorm sessions. Doodling. Screenbreak. Good for so many things.
 
One of my sanity savers is my Chaos Box. This is where I throw all my paper that I need to deal with but don’t want to deal with in the moment. Receipts, manuals, check stubs, invoices, cards. Mostly stuff I’ll eventually digitize or file. I empty it every one to two months. Hell on the inside but pretty on the outside and that’s what matters.
 
I also have an Art Box. Another take a break from the computer outlet for me is doodling and I like to change where I doodle so I wanted an easy to transport container. TIP: The Container Store clearance section often has chaos and art box options at deep discounts cause of a tiny scratch or missing XYZ. Due to weight of contents, I like these boxes to be hard not soft.
 

Home Office Joy Additions

The top of my drawers is in my Zoom background so obvs, it needs to be cute. I also prefer to not use overhead light. Enter lamp I had stuck away in a corner. I love bringing items I already had but didn’t use back to life! Overhead lighting can be so conference room’y and hospital’y. Highly recommend lamping yourself. TIP: Ikea has a great selection and those prices yo…

I was a plant mama pre-quarantine but have morphed into a Plant Mama. My favorite way to start each day is to turn on music or the news while the coffee is brewing and tend to my plants. Trimming. Watering. Dusting. Spritzing. Whispering. (Yes, dusting plants is a thing! TIP: Find out how to care for plants and get some delivered to your Chicagoland doorstep here) My biggest plant a-ha moment with the office? I had a plant on my windowsill before; I added five more and it feels so much more naturesque and serene in here, making me realize how barely noticeable the one plant was. I also made what I had deemed as floor plants due to their large size sill plants and they’re perfect in their new spot. Mismatched pots, sizes, and types makes for a wild, soothing jungle.

Another “use the good china everyday” choice was to stop saving candles for guests. Now my home continuously smells like pine and the flickering flame is a great screenbreak and brainbreak. Whenever I see sales on tree-adjacent scents, I gobble them up. TIP: Bed, Bath, & Beyond and Kohl’s often have 40-50% off sales.

While I’m all things digital for my schedule, to do list, planner life, I do like me a cute, tiny analog desktop calendar. And art goes a long way for inspiration. Bonus: the creator of both Matthew is a small business friend so I feel doubly good when I support him. (TIP: First timers, go here for $5 off your order)

A home office is not complete without beverage support. In this case, cute coasters and cute mugs. I’m horrible at drinking water so this is a must; I fill it at the start of the day and if I’m good, throughout the day. For whatever reason, a glass of water does not inspire me to drink but a bottle does. Bonus: it’s good for hikes and walks and travel.

The electronic that I use the most personally and professionally besides my laptop is our Sonos system. I always have audio on — podcast, NPR, music, nature sounds, holiday music — and I love it following me from room to room (when I’m a millionaire, my custom-built home will be wired, but till then…). We have one in the bedroom, both bathrooms, office, yard, dining room, and living room. I can control everything via my phone, including volume and muting in certain rooms. You can use it as an alarm or as a bedtime lullaby via the timer feature. The sound quality is top notch. Though the units are pricey, the option to build your system as your budget allows makes a robust system doable. We started with the big one, a gift for our wedding and over the years have added the smaller ones.

How to Know Yourself

If you’re trying to figure out what you want to do, what you want out of life, what changes to make, who you are, carve out some Me Time and make these lists. Don’t overthink. Don’t self-censor. Don’t “what if” or “that’ll never happen.” Just bullet point. Pay attention to your reactions. Then see how you can inject more of the things that elicit positive reactions into your present and future and remove the negative. See if you have any lightbulb moments, any memories you buried, any surprise excitement.

  • every job you’ve had (including mowing the grass as a teen and the three-week stint that “just didn’t work out)
  • your superpowers (what you’re naturally good at, what others admire in you or ask you for help with, what comes easily; insightful to ask others what they think your superpowers are)
  • sources of pride
  • sources of envy
  • sources of regret
  • sources of stress
  • sources of joy (even tiny joy and unsexy joy like 2 for 1 sales and curly fries)
  • life’s traits if life looked exactly how you wanted it to look

Life of Yes℠ Gift Guides

Coffeehouse Recommendations

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